1. Mutual Trust
This one is huge. You both trust each other no matter what. Now this doesn't mean you go in blindly trusting their every word and believe they can do no wrong. It means you've earned each others trust and respect each other enough not to mess with that.
2. You communicate
This one is also very important. Nowadays we talk a lot, but communicating is different. You don't need to be constantly talking 24/7. But when it comes to important things, it's discussed. When one of you is upset, unsure, anxious, worried, etc. about something, especially if its something about your relationship, you let them know. You discuss it with maturity. This is always something you can work on because a relationship with good communication is a happier relationship. No one is a mind reader.
3. You support each other
You support each others dreams and hobbies. You help them out when you're needed and cheer from the sidelines when you're not. You listen to them ramble on about something, even if you're really not interested, because they're passionate about it and it's important to them. When they're feeling down, you're there to bring them back up. You're not only their significant other but you're their #1 supporter.
4. You spend time together, but also apart
You spend a lot of time together, because that quality time means the world to you. But you also have your own friends, job, hobbies and life. You know that being joined at the hip and never going anywhere without them is not healthy. And seeing them after having been apart for a while is all the more exciting.
5. You make each other better
They motivate you to be better, work harder and just generally be a better you. You want to be the best you can be for them and vice versa, because they deserve it. They accept you as you are and would never try to change you, but you can't help cleaning up a little because they inspire you to be better.
6. You laugh together
Another big one. Your relationship is filled with tons of laughter and inside jokes. Who wants an overly serious, boring relationship? You know you found "the one" when they know exactly how to make you laugh and you know just how to do the same. Your relationship is filled with fun and laughter and you enjoy every minute being with them.
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